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Condolences SMS: 8 plain and fitting templates

Short, plain, no reply expected

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It's the most delicate message to write, the one where you dread getting it wrong by trying too hard to get it right. One rule sums up almost everything: offer your presence, keep your analysis. Here are eight plain wordings to adapt.

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  • I've heard the news about your father. I'm thinking of you very much. I'm here if you need.

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  • My deepest condolences. Words fail me, but know that I'm thinking of you strongly.

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  • I'm deeply sad for your loss. Take all the time you need, I'm around.

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  • My sincere condolences to you and yours. A heartfelt hug to you all.

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  • I'm thinking of you today. Please don't reply, I just wanted to tell you.

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  • My deepest condolences. If I can help with anything concrete, tell me.

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  • This news saddens me deeply. I keep a truly bright memory of her.

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  • My condolences. I'll call you in a few days, expecting nothing until then.

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Our tips

SMS suits a loved one poorly

For a close friend or family member, a call or a visit is still expected. SMS finds its place elsewhere: a colleague, a distant acquaintance, someone you don't want to disturb right away. It can also precede a call, to signal that you're present.

What's better left unsaid

Banish "I know what you're feeling," which always rings false, and phrases that seek meaning in the loss. Avoid "don't hesitate to ask" too: a grieving person doesn't ask. Offer something concrete, or simply say you're there.

Your frequently asked questions

Q01Is it acceptable to offer condolences by SMS?

Yes for a professional or distant relationship, or while waiting to be able to call; for a loved one, a call or presence remains expected.

Q02Is a reply to be expected?

No, and better to write it: stating that no reply is required spares the person an extra obligation.

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